A sad day for me today. I grew up going to the cemetery every Memorial Day and putting flowers on my relatives graves, then we would go to Grandma and Grandpa Taylor's house for lunch with the aunts, uncles, and cousins. We usually ate outside and it was a fun day. I got married and sometimes we went to Roosevelt for Memorial Day and sometimes we didn't. Then we moved to Colorado and I didn't know anyone in the cemetery to visit on this day. Now we have been here over 25 years and I know quite a few people who are buried here. About 5 years ago, on Memorial Day late in the afternoon we walked around and visited the graves of those we knew.
Now that I have a son here, I would like to come and watch the Veteran's Program they have every year. Last year Landon and Megan went to California over Memorial Day because Megan's Dad was very ill. I kept the kids and they were just too young to take to that kind of event. This year Landon and Megan are both working. Time off has changed a lot from when I was in the working world. Landon earns so many hours each pay period with no difference between sick days and vacation days. Each holiday they are forced to take 8 hours vacation if the office is closed, like on Christmas. They both chose to work today. I didn't go to the Veteran's Program this year either. I don't know how crowded it is and I didn't want to take the kids by myself. It is hard for Delwyn to come here.
In the evening I went to Wal-Mart and bought these patriotic sparklers and wreath. I wished I had done it earlier in the weekend so his grave would have been more festive and decorated all day long on this holiday. That is my goal for next year.
I love you Blake, and miss you tremendously. I often wonder what you would be doing if you were still here. Going to school, I suppose, working on that Engineering degree. I pray that you are happy and doing well. It might be strange to pray for someone who has passed on, but I do it sometimes because I love and miss you so much.